"Once [APS] gets called and come in there, they're not going to jerk a family apart - they're there to help." Can we have her word on that? In a perfect world where there is no such thing as guardian abuse, perhaps that would be the case, but in reality, it is far from the truth. Guardians take control of the seniors life by stating that an emergency conservatorship or guardianship is needed. The emergency hearing is done ex parte (WITHOUT the senior being present) The senior is then often conserved without even knowing it! Family members who find out and are willing to step up to be the conservator of their loved one are often cast aside in favor of a Private Or Public Guardian becoming the permanent conservator. When family members or friends protest, they are often accused of abuse or mental illness and the judge then rubber stamps the conservatorship petition by these outside agencies without letting family members defend the accusations in court. All you need is a whisper in the court hallways and a persons reputation can be ruined. An expression of "concern" about your motives to the judge and it is a done deal. Want to get your loved one out of the system? Good luck. You will need lots of money and time. Oh, and the guardian that is fighting your efforts to become your loved ones conservator? He gets to use the seniors own money to fight your plea to save your beloved parent, relative or friend from being owned by a money making entity. It is called guardians for profit and it is rampant all across America. Visit NASGA the National Association to STOP Guardian Abuse to learn more. More ...